I Embrace True Bonds

I’ve found that the fear of abandonment often leads me to invest all my time and energy into relationships with people who don’t give the same in return. It’s like I’m always worried that if I don’t give enough, I’ll be left behind. I’ve been caught in this pattern before, constantly scanning for signs of abandonment, trying to protect myself from getting hurt again.

But I’ve realised it’s time to let go of those painful memories, the worries, the fears, and the relationships that don’t serve me anymore. Instead, I’m focusing on people who truly invest in me, the ones who care and are there. No matter what society expects or what my family, friends, or colleagues think, my dreams and interests are important. My calling matters, no matter which direction it takes me. The people who value my heart and passions, I hold them close.

I’m learning to seek out people who offer honest feedback with kindness, not cruelty. I want friends who give constructive criticism without any harsh words like “No offence, but...” I value those who call me out in a playful way, making it easier to hear the truth without feeling attacked. I cherish those who don’t make me feel guilty for needing rest, and those who help me forget about my phone when we’re together. I appreciate people who are kind to others without expecting anything in return, and who strive to do the right thing, even with small gestures. The ones who make amends when they fall short mean a lot to me.

I enjoy being around people who genuinely listen and remember what it was like to feel invisible when I was younger. The friends who can laugh with me for hours over hypothetical situations or who’ll take a dozen photos just to make sure the stranger gets the perfect shot—they’re the ones who make life lighter.

I take inspiration from those who still believe in love, even after experiencing heartbreak time and time again. They manage to keep their kindness intact, even when they’ve every reason to be bitter.

The people who encourage me to chase my dreams—those are the ones I want to keep close to. I’ll love them deeply because they’re the ones who’ll support me, help me grow, and cheer me on when I need it most.